Monday, April 23, 2012

woman’s guide to having threesome w/ two men

Most women have fantasized about having two men sexually satisfy her at the same time but not nearly as many women have actually experienced two men at once. The problem seems to be that most of the women interested in having a male-female-male threesome don’t know much about how to go about making this happen and what actually goes down in these situations. Being that I have had experience with a few of these I’d love to share with you the 1, 2, 3s of a male-female-male threesome.


One of The Biggest Misconceptions About Male-Female-Male Threesomes:
  • Two men that are willing to share a woman sexually are bi or gay! – VERY FALSE! Watching a woman have sex with another man is a common sexual fantasy among many heterosexual men. A male-female-male threesome is about two men that are interested/willing in pleasuring the same woman at once and that’s it. Yes, the two men will be in close proximity to one another while having sex with her but being naked in the same room with someone of the same sex does not qualify anyone as bisexual or homosexual.
Two of The Surest Ways to Get Two Willing Men:
  • Fuck Buddy Plus One – If you have a man in your life that plays the fuck buddy role and he has a buddy that you are also attracted to they might just be the pair that you are looking for to satisfy this urge. Men have historically been known to be more than okay with sharing a woman that they are only casually involved with sexually. You are already comfortable being intimate with your Fuck Buddy so hopefully you can trust him to keep his boy under control so that nothing beyond what you are comfortable with happens. How do you bring up the idea? Just ask your Fuck Buddy but I would never bring this up after any of the parties have been under any type of influence of drugs or alcohol. I know that sounds like common sense but you’d be surprised how often people have entered into these scenarios while drunk or high and later regretted it. I also wouldn’t bring it up during sex wait until after or even before your next meet up…tell him he’s invited but to bring his boy with him. Seriously, just ask him but make sure that when you do you convey that this is a serious request and let him know that it would make you extremely happy if he would help you fulfill this fantasy. But don’t bargain with him for anything you are unwilling to do like have a female-male-female threesome with him. Don’t be that girl that promises something she doesn’t want to do to get what she really wants.
  • “On-Premise” Swingers Club Admit One – Believe it or not an “on-premise” Swingers Club is probably one of the safest, surest and most discreet way for a woman to fulfill her fantasy fucking two men at once. One of the safest places? Yes, these clubs are safe places to get your freak on because many of the people that frequent them know the rules…no means no, condoms are a must and the rules are set by the lady. One of the surest places to get two men? Yes, these clubs aren’t just for “Swingers” there are all sorts of people that go to these clubs including single women and men looking for no strings attached sex. That’s why I’d advise that you attend on one of the nights that they allow admission to single men. How is having sex in front and around a bunch of people discreet? Well, you don’t have to tell anyone inside the club your real name, everyone there is there for sex nobody is going to judge you and honestly “on-premise” Swingers Clubs are ideal places to fulfill any fantasy you might want to keep a secret. The two men you meet on the night that you do this will more than likely never see you again and if they did recognize you, they more than likely won’t approach you. What happens at a Swingers Club stays at in the Swingers Club. Go there with a very open mind, wear your hottest outfit, dance with some sexy guys and if you feel up to it take them to the back for some naked fun and remember always use protection.
Three Rules You Should Follow:
  • Girl, it is your party so you should lead if you want to have fun. You get to decide which guy plays what role and when. To be in charge you don’t have to play the role of dictator, no pun intended, you can easily direct the evening with your body language and subtle actions. You can kiss and stroke one guy while the other goes down on you or penetrates you. This is your fantasy make sure that you get to please them how you want and that they are pleasing you in all the ways you have imagined.
  • Speaking of making sure you are pleased how you want…make sure to let your imagination run wild. Anything you want to allow to happen goes! From two men fondling your breasts and you masturbating two men at once to you giving head while being fucked from behind and being penetrated vaginally and anally at once. As long as all the parties involved feel comfortable with the sexual act that you have conjured up then go for it! 
  • Water, lube and condoms are must haves in the room while you play. You have to make sure that everyone is hydrated because you will definitely be working up a sweat so why not keep some bottled water on hand. Lube because doing two men is usually more of a marathon than a lazy Sunday drive. Lube will help you give the men a hand or maybe even prepare your booty to take one of them in the back. Condoms!!! Condoms are a must have! Do I need to really explain why? No. You ladies know all the benefits of safe sex. You should provide the fellas condoms just in case they come with excuses or if they try to pull the “I ran out” line. These must haves are common sense items but they ensure that everyone is not only safe but also comfortable and cleanly.
And those are the 1, 2, 3s of a male-female-male threesome. I hope this guide helps get you started! Enjoy